Plenty of things can lead to confusion. The most common one is 'DOUBT'. Plenty of people's philosophy can twist your mind in a direction totaly opposite to what you wanted to do from the start. As you migle around, you are exposed to pain, fear and confusion and these usually twists your mind. You are the only one who has the power to believe..... and to make others believe as well. This is the reason why god always teaches us to BELIEVE rather then to DOUBT. To believe, is to be given strength to do anything you want in your life!

Sometimes when you try so hard to push away your fear by running away from it, you disconnect yourself directly from the one you love. Have the strength to face any challenge for is it a 'test' that lies within the path you chose to reach your goal.

Most of the time, the things you dream ("thoughts") of can be REAL as it provides you with a VISION which you wish to achieve. Things that you see ("physical") is the ILLUSION for it blinds you from the vision you wish to achieve!

Do not care about what people think of you for it prevents you from being yourself. It's like as if you have to fake every single bit of yourself just so that people will like you. A life made out of lies, deception and confusion..... is that the life that you really want to live? Instead, be brave to act like yourself and someday..... when you found someone who is able to accept you for who you are and not what you are, you have found your friend ^_^.

You leave someone because you're afraid to hurt that person. It may be just that it's a convenient excuse to run away from your responsibility. If you know that you cant handle it, dont start. Then again, you'll never know that you can handle it until you start. The best way to go about it is not to give up. That's why relationships broke off, business fail and goals aren't met. When it is convenient, we LOVE. When it is inconvenient, we LEAVE. If someone has to leave because they love, it simply doesn't make sense for to love is to be strong enough to keep everything in order and to place it back together when things are in disarray..... not to leave.

I am no one's boyfriend..... only because I do not wish to burden anyone with my imperfection of being one! However, if anyone wishes for me to help, I will honour their wishes by helping them with all my might..... let them be males or females. I will help anyone who seeks. I won't allow anyone to do ill bidding and I will never allow anyone to harm my friends, my family or take me for granted!

We won't know that other's wont betray us. That's when trust isn't easily developed upon each other. It is just a risk that you have to take. However, I believe that when someone is being entrusted with other's trust, that person should always do his/her best in order not to betray that trust. There may be others who think that something else is worth more then the trust that his/her companion has granted, but to me..... the most important thing is the trust that other people gave..... for I too seek TRUST within others.

Relationships works in two ways. It will never work if it is only one sided. If it is stability that you seek in one, it is stability that you have to give to others. if it is security that you seek in one, it is security that you have to give to others. Relationship is a give and take situation. One can't always take and others won't have the strength to always give. The best way to go about it is not to take each other for granted and always do your best to make one another happy.