His trials only tests your faith to see whether or not it is strong and pure.
Your faith is being tested and your sins are being purified.
and your faith is far more precious then mere gold to the lord,
so if your faith remains strong after being tested, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day of his return~

God hasn't left any of us.
the only way of knowing whether god is there is our fear.
We have a choice. Faith or Fear! That's the test!
It's true, choosing faith might not mean that you might not die, but it will effect on how we experience our death and therefore our life.

So what is the IDEAL solution?

The facts must be known;
- Men have higher hormones compared to females
- Men have higher pride compared to females
-> Due to their nature, men are usually more big hearted and generous compared to females.
- Men have broader mind compared to females
As such, male takes the more 'practical' approach towards love

Drawbacks;
! The drawback is that men will not allow their pride to be hurt
! It generally takes more to hurt men thus they might not understand the pain women suffers (In order to know happiness, you need to know pain)
! Due to their 'insensitive' nature, men have less shame compared to women
! Due to their 'broad' mind, they might step into a territory that might seem offensive to the females species.
! Men are more DREAMY compared to females

- Women are more sensitive compared to males
-> Due to their sensitive nature, women are usually more small hearted compared to males and they are more selfish!
- Women suffers more generally compared to males
-> They have periods, it hurts during pregnancy, e.t.c.
- Women usually matures faster compared to males
-> The one who experience more pain are more likely to mature faster!
As such, women take the more 'sensitive' approach towards love

Drawbacks;
! Women are less generous
! Women might get offended easier compared to males due to their sensitive nature
! Women are less DREAMY compared to males because they are more mature.

The IDEA is to find a solution that would satisfy both parties!
The world is a mix of black and white! The ideal solution is to step in the grey territory!

Friends share their laughter with you. Good friends share their pain with you. Best friends share their life with you. (Friends -> Acquaintances) (Good friends -> People who trust you with their pain! seeks you for help!) (Best friends -> People who seeks commitment with you because they feel that you are their soul mate)

As such, one should not rush into relationship right away. True colors will not show until incidents happens to see how 2 people will fare in problems! That is how love and support is shown!