I am uncertain about how I am supposed to feel about marriage.
At first, I am thrilled about it thinking that I will finally have a companion to share the rest of my life with. At other times I feel afraid thinking what will happen if I am betrayed by her.
Often to minimize the risks we take, we weigh the +ve and -ve aspects of the subject.
However in marriage, we can never do that as we don't know what will be the conditions of one's loyalty or disloyalty. Because of my inability to accept failures, I keep thinking of the -ve aspect of it and what I can do should the worse happen. (Always prepare for the worse and hope for the best)
Mostly I think how am I to survive if she betrays me.
Then I realize that part of LOVE is to have faith in humanity and part of that faith comes from how you treat others with love.
It's not that everyone wants to be appreciated, but it's how you should appreciate the kindness that people show you. It's not how everyone wants to be loved, but it's how you should love others.
At first, I am thrilled about it thinking that I will finally have a companion to share the rest of my life with. At other times I feel afraid thinking what will happen if I am betrayed by her.
Often to minimize the risks we take, we weigh the +ve and -ve aspects of the subject.
However in marriage, we can never do that as we don't know what will be the conditions of one's loyalty or disloyalty. Because of my inability to accept failures, I keep thinking of the -ve aspect of it and what I can do should the worse happen. (Always prepare for the worse and hope for the best)
Mostly I think how am I to survive if she betrays me.
Then I realize that part of LOVE is to have faith in humanity and part of that faith comes from how you treat others with love.
It's not that everyone wants to be appreciated, but it's how you should appreciate the kindness that people show you. It's not how everyone wants to be loved, but it's how you should love others.
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