If we can accept the fact that we can die anytime, we will lead our lives differently. Work, money, ambition, we bury ourselves in these things. But we never stop ourselves and think, is this what we want? Life does sometimes juggle you around. Bounce you to one side, you think that's what you want to do (desire), bounce you to the other side you think that's what you have to do (responsibility). Who wins? Love always wins.