There are plenty of ways to realise what love is. One way is to get engaged in relationships..... however I would not choose such way as you are playing with people's feeling to satisfy your own desire. I dislike having to hurt others for my benefits. That's why..... I'll study it by other's mistake. It may sound like I am using others to do the work for me, but I was not the one who asked them to get engaged in a relationship.....

Most of the time, honesty falls on the same level as stupidity and dishonestly falls on the same level as smart. There are just times when you need to lie to get what you want. There are times when you need to be honest so that people will just see what you're seeing eventhough you know that it might hurt their feelings..... but unless people are able to accept and expose their weaknesses, nothing will change.

Sure there will be people who will take you for granted..... but if you use that as an excuse not to help them, it will be like you're expecting something in return for the good deeds you have done which is also not very honourable. Why expect something in return for the good deeds you have done? That's not called 'helping'. It's more like 'business'. Do what you can..... one step at a time..... and be happy with it..... without troubling others. This is one of the fundamentals of being a human who are able to feel.....

There are people who detest others just because they are happy. These are usually the people who either are lost or detests people who has no idea of how harsh reality is yet being happy just by ignoring it..... however..... I still don't think that it is a suitable reason to take one's own happiness. If you truly understand pain..... if you truly understand what it means to lose something..... wouldn't it give you more reasons to protect other's happiness so that they do not experience the same thing as you?

People cannot gain anything without sacrificing something. You must present something of equal value in order to gain something. This is the preception of equality. Of course there are others who would try to defy it through the means of cheating, lying as well as betrayal. Most likely those who doesn't have already been through the pain of going through it..... yet survived to prove the fact that it is wrong to do so.....

Should you change so that others would accept you? Sometimes maybe it is required..... but to be accepted for who you are..... that is a blessing in which you must care for in the end. Not many in this world would change for the benefits of others yet those who does shows that a part of them loves something more then they love themselves. After all..... in this world where people only focused on how they should be accepted instead of accepting others..... how are you to be accepted if you're not to change?

I learned that there's only one truth in this world..... and that is your truth. You are what you believe. You speak what you believe and you live your life the way you felt it to be right. This does not mean that there's only one truth for everyone. Everyone has their own beliefs and ways of life which made it their own truth. In reality, there exists as many truth as there are people. This is what makes each of us different. The key to unity is to find the similarities in our truths.

Having weaknesses is nothing to be ashamed about. It is when you realise your weakness, acknowledge it..... and have the courage and strength to overcome with the addition of wisdom revealing the way to either compensate or eliminate it..... can you truly become strong. To those who denies their own weaknesses..... shall forever be weak.