There are plenty of ways to realise what love is. One way is to get engaged in relationships..... however I would not choose such way as you are playing with people's feeling to satisfy your own desire. I dislike having to hurt others for my benefits. That's why..... I'll study it by other's mistake. It may sound like I am using others to do the work for me, but I was not the one who asked them to get engaged in a relationship.....