Relationships works in two ways. It will never work if it is only one sided. If it is stability that you seek in one, it is stability that you have to give to others. if it is security that you seek in one, it is security that you have to give to others. Relationship is a give and take situation. One can't always take and others won't have the strength to always give. The best way to go about it is not to take each other for granted and always do your best to make one another happy.