Can we..... as a man..... as someone who devote my life to serving one woman..... expect anything out of the woman we love? I understand perfectly that the duties of being a boyfriend is to honour the girl's feeling, to be there for her, to aid her..... as well as to guard her at all times. However, right now..... instead of being loved back..... I feel that I am being used. Maybe it's only human that we should repay each other's kindness in order to make us feel appriciated and loved. However..... if we repay too much, that would conflict in the increase of their expectation towards you. Yet, if we do nothing and just keep taking their service without paying anything in return..... it would result in that person's feeling that he/she is being used by you.