When people have problems, they tend to either seek to solve it themselves or turn to others to share it. However, for those who turn to others to solve it..... will tend to depend too much on others that they forgot what it means to be independant. For those who seek to solve it themselves might break down if they are not strong enough. I guess I finally realise what people want..... or at least what I want. I want a partner who is dependable, yet..... makes me a better men that could act as a reminder that I need to be strong for her.