The more people who acknowledge your abilites, the more enemies that you have or the more people who would want to benefit by using you. You have to prepare yourself..... physically and mentally. I have always had the idea that LOVE is about two people who filled in each other's weaknesses and emptiness; thus it's best to get a partner with a different pointview and abilites from the other. However, in this reality..... most women uses men to their likings..... and men pretty much just want to have sex. I just hope that somewhere..... somehow..... I would prove my theory correct..... even if it means not having a girlfriend in this lifetime.