Every human being will bound to think negative thought evantually..... and sometimes they will give up. But all that feelngs is not going to produce something useful, yet..... it is better then those who is always optimistic and being happy without thinking of other things. I found many whom I would like as a girlfriend..... but I never made a move...... because I am too afraid of rejection. I am a coward and a pathetic loser. Then again, perhaps, it's better that I don't have any in my life; or is to overcome your fear..... a part of the topic in LOVE?