It's nice to have someone to talk to as they could somehow relate to how you feel and make you release your stress. However, as you share your problems with others, you tend to be dependant on others. I do understand that they won't always be there for me..... that they will always have their own things to settle, yet..... I feel relieved whenever I talk to them about my problems. However, it makes me weak as I tend to get less independant on solving my own burden. The danger of not being independant can somehow crush you one day when you face problem. There is no guarantee that others will help you when you're in trouble. The only guarantee of success that you have..... is to rely on none other then yourself.