Is it wrong to expect something in return for the good things you did? If it is, then why help in the first place when you want something in return for it? You might as well just make business then. However, even if it is wrong..... why do we get hurt knowing that the person we helped seemed to take us for granted? I understand that it's about giving and taking, but doesn't it hurt when the one you helped keeps taking and taking? Is it not wrong as well if you refuse to help that person in the future knowing that YOU can help but would not based on your own personal experience?