We are all basically the same. Our minds lack something basic. We fear that deficiency. This is why we are attempting to become one. We will meld with and fill each other. This is instrumentally. Mankind can never survive alone. Although you, yourself are always unique. This is why life is hard. this is why life is sad and empty. That is why you want affection, the close physical and mental presence of others. This is why we wish to become one.