Pride sometimes gets in the way of learning the true meaning of love . We can depend on each other , yet we wont because we believe that we can do it alone without anyone's help . ..... Yet , those who does depend on others ..... can be seen as people who gave up too early on their problems before succeeding, thus pushing the solutions for others to discover . However , isn't it comforting ? Knowing that there will be someone out there who are willing to help ? Knowing that there will be someone who are willing to share your pain ? Knowing that there will be someone who supports your ideals ? Thinking like this ..... often leads to the conclusion that I am weak and submissive .